Wednesday 16 July 2014

Movin' On Up

The time has come for me to move on up. I've finally joined WordPress and moved A Stylish Affair to WordPress with an even sleeker design but still the same great posts you love.

Please bookmark, follow, etch into your memory, write on the back of your hand- whatever you need to do to remember the new site address.


http://astylishaffairblog.com/


All new content will be posted on the Wordpress site (although it still houses your old favourties!)

I'll be posting all about my recent Europe trip very soon so be sure to take a look.

Thanks for all your support

xx
A Stylish Affair


Monday 30 June 2014

Signature Style

I'm currently at an altitude of 30,000 feet flying somewhere over Mumbai. After reading countless fashion magazines (the one thing I absolutely love about flying) I've begun contemplating my signature style. 

My wardrobe can probably be best described as an Aladins cave of guilt-inducing investment pieces. All of which are dresses and accessories. I'm a bona fide dress girl- always have been and always will be. However these are my go- to pieces for special events/special dinners ect. My day to day and casual wardrobe tend to differ quite significantly. I'm a sucker for anything over sized in Winter; an oversized white shirt that looks like I've borrowed it from my boyfriends closet? YES please. Chunky oversized knit cardigans, black on black and over the knee boots all make up my casual wardrobe. Don't get me wrong my casual wardrobe still seaths of overpriced 'investments'. However it is far less 'pretty' than the section allocated to the dresses in garment bags which take up half my wardrobe. I wouldn't go as far as  labelling it androgynous. Although I do see a clear difference in my style from Winter to Summer and casual to special occasions. I've defined my signature style as pretty and preppy. My dresses are always pretty and my casual winter wardrobe is usually polished off with some hint of preppy influence. It took me years to be able to clearly define my style and know just by looking at a piece whether it would belong in my wardrobe or not. 

Although somewhere over the Indian Ocean I started wondering whether I could in fact purchase a pair of birks or man style loafers? Androgenous dressing is certainly here to stay. I admire girls who pull off the Androgenous look oh so well but I've never considered myself one of them. Maybe it was the lack of sleep or perhaps the dehydration that made my brain go ga-ga and consider the purchase of a Saint Laurent inspired two piece black pant suit. Whilst I'm at it I'll also research if any one has made a version of the grey check suit and tie combo Saint Laurent sent down the runway this year. Could I become the girl in the two piece suit and embrace Androgenous dressing in all it's glory? What about the years I'd spent perfecting my Aladins cave of florals, laces and full skirts? I contemplated all of this whilst flicking page after page and pondering over the Androgenously styled outfits which seemed to be on at least every second page of my magazine.

However all was set right again in my world when opening Malaysian Elle and seeing this gorgeous Dior add. The fuschia lady Dior, the ballerina style full skirt, the pleating, the softness of the colour (not a crisp white but not a cream) all had me weak at the knees and secretly calculating just how long I'd have to save for to get my hands on a fuschia coloured Lady Dior. Pantsuit. What pantsuit?

Saturday 28 June 2014

To The Beach

Hi Gorgeous Readers, 
Just a quick note to say that I'm off to Europe for a quick holiday and a dose of some much needed sun. Be sure to follow me on Instagram for a sneak peak of the holiday wardrobe and as always I'll give you a full wardrobe report upon my return. 

Hope you don't miss my weekly stylish musings to much!

For those of you not headed for a European Summer I've left you with some of my favourite beach themed quotes to suffice as your dose of Vitamin D.

Much Love, Stay Safe 
xx
A Stylish Affair 



 














Friday 27 June 2014

The Top 20

I was recently at a function where someone made the offhanded comment "oh you always look good because you have money to spend on clothes". I know i've written this before but it is such a misconception that you have to spend a lot of money to look good (I was wearing two Asos items at the time- my getup hardly broke the bank!). It must be said that the person who made this comment did look deplorable. However I only mention this because it further enhances my point.

I have a very good friend of mine who always, always looks amazing and I happen to know that her clothing expenditure is considerably less than mine. She has three mouths to feed (5 including hers and her husbands) three little bodies to clothe and she drops quite a bundle on private school fees. Naturally a designer handbag or cashmere jumper isn't going to be at the top of her list of priorities. But she knows how to shop! buying pieces in neutral colours, that all match, spending money on investment pieces and updating her wardrobe with new seasonal pieces to keep on trend. This ensures that she always looks amazing and well put together. Definitely the hottest mum I know. She manages to look this good all the time despite sometimes having dealt with tantrums, spilt lunches, hair brushes being stuck in hair and children being sick all before 9am.

The problem with the girl with the deplorable outfit? clothes that were probably just thrown together, no on-trend items and no investment pieces. They might have been fine on their own but the pieces she threw together just didn't work. Enlisting the help of a stylist will help you to decide which pieces to keep, which to throw and how to edit your wardrobe to become full of pieces which just work together.

I've compiled a list of the top 20 items I recommend every one should have in their wardrobe. Basic pieces, that will allow you to pull together an outfit and look fab- even five years after purchase.

XX
A Stylish Affair.

1. The Basic White Tee.
http://www.witchery.com.au/shop/her/clothing/tops/302358/Cotton-Basic-Scoop-Neck-Tee.html

2. The White Shirt
http://www.countryroad.com.au/shop/woman/clothing/shirts/oversized-boyfriend-shirt-60169030

3. Tailored Black Pants

http://www.countryroad.com.au/shop/woman/clothing/pants/60162643/Double-Cloth-Pant.html

4. The perfect jeans that fit in all the right places. These will vary from person to person. My particular favourites are Bettina Liano.

www.bettinaliano.com
5. Black Pumps
http://www.tonybianco.com.au/categories/heels/ajana-46403.html
6. Black Ballet Flats
http://www.sambag.com.au/natalie-black-plain-leather-ballets
7. A Warm Coat
http://www.witchery.com.au/shop/her/clothing/jackets-and-coats#&pdid=6506&scroll=280
8. A Knit Jumper
http://www.countryroad.com.au/shop/woman/clothing/knitwear/mini-grid-stitch-knit-60165755
9. A printed Tee

  
http://www.net-a-porter.com/intl/product/455319?cm_mmc=LinkshareUK-_-Hy3bqNL2jtQ-_-Custom-_-
LinkBuilder&siteID=Hy3bqNL2jtQ-5sKxVmDtK1qrhxHnrUN_5Q


10. A Chambray Shirt
http://www.countryroad.com.au/shop/woman/clothing/shirts/denim-boxed-frame-shirt-60163458
11. A Denim Dress
http://www.countryroad.com.au/shop/woman/clothing/dresses/denim-shirt-dress-60168963
12.  A printed maxi dress

http://www.matchesfashion.com/product/197291
13. A Large Black Tote

http://www.oroton.com.au/w1/i3125768_1001611/
14. Black Boots- Either over the knee or ankle- which ever you prefer
Over the Knee - http://www.tonybianco.com.au/categories/boots/dane.html
Ankle - http://www.tonybianco.com.au/categories/boots/duval-42051.html
15. Beautiful Lingerie
http://www.ellemacphersonintimates.com.au/elle-macpherson-intimates-for-you-bikini-brief-jet-peacoat
16. Breton Stipes
http://www.bretonshirt.co.uk/
17. A Pencil Skirt
http://www.countryroad.com.au/shop/woman/clothing/skirts/stripe-pencil-skirt-60169075
18. A Leather Jacket
http://www.theoutnet.com/product/Muubaa/Monteria-leather-biker-jacket/481124

19. That one item that you absolutely love and couldn't resist having. It may be a designer handbag or a vintage piece you picked up for next to nothing at the flea markets. Its that one piece that makes you feel happy when you take it out/wear it. For me its always a cost to much but had to have it dress.
http://www.zimmermannwear.com/readytowear/clothing/dresses/tamer-petal-tulip-dress-1.html
20. CONFIDENCE. It doesn't matter what you wear, as long as you are confident doing so. Having fashion confidence is the MOST important item in your wardrobe.





















Friday 20 June 2014

The Midi Skirt

I'm currently obsessing over the full midi skirt. Seen all over the runway by most major fashion houses when showing their Spring/Summer 2013 collections, the trend has now filtered down into chain stores and I couldn't be happier. I love a full skirt- it works for almost any occasion- from Friday night drinks and Sunday brunch to the 9am Monday morning meeting. Team with a crop top for Friday night drinks, a jumper for Sunday brunch and a shirt for the Monday morning meeting- whats not to love?

I scoured most stores for the perfect Midi. Black with pockets were my requirements and I found it at a bargain price from Asos.



Shop their full collection here: http://www.asos.com/search/Midi-skirt?q=Midi+skirt

Also be sure to check out this amazing number from Portmans- get in quick, this is the second cut of this skirt which completely sold out nation wide the first time around and it looks AMAZING on.

http://www.portmans.com.au/shop/en/portmans/full-party-skirt?utm_medium=Email&utm_campaign=POR1406_BloomingNewNow_Sun15&utm_source=Shop+Full+Party+Skirt&cm_mmc=Email-_-POR1406_BloomingNewNow_Sun15-_-Shop+Full+Party+Skirt-_-NA&link

and of course, shop all the looks below.

Enjoy
XX
A Stylish Affair